Models for sexual partner choice are discussed for the case of highly variable sexual activity in the population. It is demonstrated that the variances in the number of infected persons may be extremely large. For the random mixing model, higher order cumulants are also evaluated. On the basis of these results the applicability of deterministic models and models for expectations only are questioned. A general model is proposed for handling nonrandom, or correlated, mixing. The problem of inconsistency is overcome by considering the couples having sex as the natural unit in the model. In the case of s discrete homogeneous groups it is shown that only (s2) parameters defining the interaction between the groups can be chosen freely. Finally, the effect of correlation in partner choice is demonstrated by a bivariate lognormal model for partner choice.