Obesity incidence is increasing worldwide with the urgent need to identify new therapeutics. Sex differences in immune cell activation drive obesity-mediated pathologies where males are more susceptible to obesity co-morbidities and exacerbated inflammation. Here, we demonstrate that the macrophage-secreted protein RELMα critically protects females against high fat diet-induced obesity. Compared to male mice, RELMα levels were elevated in both control and high fat dietfed females and correlated with adipose macrophages and eosinophils. RELMα-deficient females gained more weight and had pro-inflammatory macrophage accumulation and eosinophil loss, while both RELMα treatment and eosinophil transfer rescued this phenotype. Single cell RNA-sequencing of the adipose stromal vascular fraction was performed and identified sex and RELMα-dependent changes. Genes involved in oxygen sensing and iron homeostasis, including hemoglobin and lncRNA Gm47283, correlated with increased obesity, while eosinophil chemotaxis and response to amyloid-beta were protective. Monocyte-to-macrophage transition was also dysregulated in RELMα-deficient animals. Collectively, these studies implicate a RELMα-macrophage-eosinophil axis in sex-specific protection against obesity and uncover new therapeutic targets for obesity.