Focus groups were used to investigate women's perception and experience of menopause, hormone replacement therapy, osteoporosis and doctor-patient relationships. Forty women aged between 45 and 55 years participated in seven focus groups. Most women thought that these topics were not widely or freely discussed in the community. Nevertheless they were able to share their experiences on this occasion. Lack of reliable, accessible and current information on menopause and related topics was identified as a problem. This was compounded by the contradictory nature of the information which was available. Hysterectomy and osteoporosis were identified as specific areas in which information was inadequate and not readily accessible. Solutions suggested by the women included distributing information pamphlets with contact numbers for further information to non-health-related settings such as hairdressing salons. The need to foster open discussion between women and their doctors was highlighted, with contributions required from both parties to develop a more equal partnership. A review of doctors' and women's surveillance practices with regard to hormone replacement therapy may also be warranted. We found focus groups a useful method for accessing women's experiences and perceptions. There was particular benefit in researchers being involved as moderators and scribes, and in an early post-focus group meeting to amplify and clarify records of the discussions. Small group size and an emphasis on confidentiality were, we believe, helpful strategies in encouraging discussion of intimate topics.